Why in 9ja, wife's money is hers while husband's money is theirs?

There is a serious issue in Nigeria for many years where married couples are suppose to be partners but nooooooooo! Instead, a wife working & making money on her own, ties her money to herself while she believes her husband's money belongs to her. Even cases where the wife is making money more than her husband she still expects her husband to feed & pay all the bills in the house including her own bills.

Some wives will even wait till their husbands get back from travels before collecting money for feeding the children while the ones they made on their own are pocketed. Situations where some wives buy properties or cars in their own names while their husbands buy properties with their names like Mr Jude & Mrs Princess Okere for property title documents but same can't be said of most 9ja women. The best u will get frm most 9ja women is borrowing which alws leads to fight & insults if the husband failed to return it on time.

Now my question is - is this fair to we guys or husbands in this society? Why will a woman pocket her own interest funds while she spends the token her hubby makes claiming her money is hers while his money is theirs? Wht the hell is the meaning of this? Smells like a day light scamming....

• Guys, is this fair enough? Ur wife spending frm ur money while she keeps hers without even letting u smell it?
• Ladies, can your money be shared btw u & ur husband's equally like men do their wives (note I said husband nt boy friend)?
• Ladies again , if u are making money more than ur hubby, will u be kind enuf to relieve him of som major burdens in home expenses without collecting it back claiming tht u only borrowed him e.g. paying house rent without asking back even if he's nt tht broke?

I believe marriage suppose to be a partnering thing to show love & support not a choking life decision....